Wedding Music Planning

Music sets the emotional tone for every moment of your wedding day. From the processional that gives you chills to the last dance of the evening, choosing the right songs creates memories that will last a lifetime.

Ceremony Music Essentials

Plan music for the prelude (as guests arrive), processional (wedding party entrance), bride’s entrance, ceremony itself, recessional (exit), and postlude (as guests leave).

Choose Your First Dance Carefully

Your first dance song should have personal meaning to your relationship. Consider the lyrics, tempo, and length - you’ll be dancing to it in front of all your guests.

Mix Familiar and Personal

Balance songs that everyone knows and loves with music that’s personally meaningful to you as a couple. This keeps the dance floor full while showcasing your personality.

Consider All Generations

Include music from different eras to ensure guests of all ages have songs they recognize and want to dance to. Mix classics with contemporary hits.

Create Do Not Play Lists

Be clear about songs you definitely don’t want played. This might include breakup songs, music with inappropriate lyrics, or songs that bring up bad memories.

Plan Key Moments

Designate special songs for the cake cutting, bouquet toss, parent dances, and last song of the night. These moments deserve carefully chosen music.

Work with Your DJ or Band

Communicate your vision clearly but trust their expertise about reading the crowd and keeping energy levels appropriate throughout the evening.

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Remember that music is deeply personal. Choose songs that reflect your relationship and the atmosphere you want to create, and don’t be afraid to include unexpected favorites that represent who you are as a couple.